February 14 is often associated with romantic couples, but what about those who are single? Some might cross the date off their calendars or treat it as just another day. But here’s why you shouldn’t skip the celebration.
According to Wikipedia, February 14, the Feast of Saint Valentine, became associated with romantic love in the 14th and 15th centuries. However, in the 21st century, it has evolved to celebrate all forms of love.
Why celebrate solo?
Love isn’t exclusive to romantic relationships. It encompasses self-love, family bonds, friendships, and spiritual connections. Being single on Valentine’s Day isn’t something that needs to be normalized—it already is normal. It’s about celebrating love in all its forms.
Feel-good Valentine’s celebrations
1. Spa Day
Treat yourself to a whole body massage, manicure, pedicure, facial, or body scrub. These treatments aren’t just luxuries—they’re investments in your well-being. Without time constraints, you can fully relax and rejuvenate.
2. Spiritual Connection
Visit a church, attend mass, or simply reflect. Spending time in spiritual contemplation and gratitude can make for a meaningful celebration.
3. Literary Escape
Immerse yourself in a good book, whether physical or digital. It’s not just entertainment—it’s mental exercise that contributes to better health. Try classics like “The Great Gatsby” by F. Scott Fitzgerald or lifestyle books like “Bella Figura” by Kamin Mohammadi.
4. Culinary Adventures
- Dine out with family or friends for unfiltered conversations and memory-making
- Master the art of dining solo—no insecurity needed
- Cook at home: prepare that steak you’ve been craving or experiment with new recipes
Remember: good nutrition is self-love.
5. Retail Therapy
Channel your inner Rebecca Bloomwood or Carrie Bradshaw. Whether window shopping or actual buying, follow Vivienne Westwood’s advice: “Buy less. Choose well. Make it last.”
6. Travel
Explore locally or abroad. New environments and experiences can provide a refreshing perspective and contribute to overall well-being.
7. Give Back
Practice philanthropy. Whether it’s buying meals for those in need or donating to charitable institutions, showing love to others makes for a meaningful celebration.
Valentine’s Day is for everyone
The key lies in emotional maturity—being content with your relationship status and life choices. Seeing couples shouldn’t make you grumpy if you’re truly at peace with your decisions and priorities.
As Carrie Bradshaw wisely said, “The most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love you, well that’s just fabulous.”
Different strokes for different folks. Your celebrations don’t need to be the same as others’. What matters is celebrating love in whatever form resonates with you.
So this February 14th, celebrate—because love, in all its forms, is worth celebrating.
