February 20, 2018, 5:53 am
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.89866 Gambian Dalasi
1 Philippine Peso = 172.37548 Guinea Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 0.14054 Guatemala Quetzal
1 Philippine Peso = 3.9364 Guyana Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.14982 Hong Kong Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.45019 Honduras Lempira
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1 Philippine Peso = 1.21437 Haiti Gourde
1 Philippine Peso = 4.80326 Hungarian Forint
1 Philippine Peso = 259.67432 Indonesian Rupiah
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1 Philippine Peso = 22.68199 Iraqi Dinar
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1 Philippine Peso = 20.41552 Korean Won
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1 Philippine Peso = 6.12088 Kazakhstan Tenge
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1 Philippine Peso = 25.42146 Myanmar Kyat
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1 Philippine Peso = 6.68582 Mauritania Ougulya
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.29828 Maldives Rufiyaa
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.35467 Mexican Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07454 Malaysian Ringgit
1 Philippine Peso = 0.22274 Namibian Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 6.87739 Nigerian Naira
1 Philippine Peso = 0.59195 Nicaragua Cordoba
1 Philippine Peso = 0.14901 Norwegian Krone
1 Philippine Peso = 1.96697 Nepalese Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.02593 New Zealand Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.00737 Omani Rial
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01916 Panama Balboa
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06225 Peruvian Nuevo Sol
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06025 Papua New Guinea Kina
1 Philippine Peso = 1 Philippine Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 2.11398 Pakistani Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.0642 Polish Zloty
1 Philippine Peso = 106.68774 Paraguayan Guarani
1 Philippine Peso = 0.06973 Qatar Rial
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07198 Romanian New Leu
1 Philippine Peso = 1.08044 Russian Rouble
1 Philippine Peso = 16.10153 Rwanda Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07184 Saudi Arabian Riyal
1 Philippine Peso = 0.14875 Solomon Islands Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.25546 Seychelles Rupee
1 Philippine Peso = 0.34393 Sudanese Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15255 Swedish Krona
1 Philippine Peso = 0.02511 Singapore Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01367 St Helena Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.4254 Slovak Koruna
1 Philippine Peso = 146.16858 Sierra Leone Leone
1 Philippine Peso = 10.76628 Somali Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 378.35439 Sao Tome Dobra
1 Philippine Peso = 0.16762 El Salvador Colon
1 Philippine Peso = 9.86552 Syrian Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.22276 Swaziland Lilageni
1 Philippine Peso = 0.59923 Thai Baht
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04546 Tunisian Dinar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04238 Tongan paʻanga
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07167 Turkish Lira
1 Philippine Peso = 0.12904 Trinidad Tobago Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.55669 Taiwan Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 43.02682 Tanzanian Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.51715 Ukraine Hryvnia
1 Philippine Peso = 69.38697 Ugandan Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01916 United States Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.54521 Uruguayan New Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 156.47509 Uzbekistan Sum
1 Philippine Peso = 477.73945 Venezuelan Bolivar
1 Philippine Peso = 434.75095 Vietnam Dong
1 Philippine Peso = 2.01916 Vanuatu Vatu
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04802 Samoa Tala
1 Philippine Peso = 10.11303 CFA Franc (BEAC)
1 Philippine Peso = 0.05172 East Caribbean Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 10.11303 CFA Franc (BCEAO)
1 Philippine Peso = 1.81628 Pacific Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 4.78831 Yemen Riyal
1 Philippine Peso = 0.22279 South African Rand
1 Philippine Peso = 99.41571 Zambian Kwacha
1 Philippine Peso = 6.93295 Zimbabwe dollar

Hackneyed Comfort

Perhaps it isn’t a good idea to keep saying “Everything happens for a reason” when something bad or tragic happens to someone. One day, we might get an answer like, “Oh, yeah? Like what?” Accompanied by a withering stare. 

Because no matter how good our intentions are, it could sound like we’re just brushing off someone’s pain with an easy platitude. 

I have a friend whose five-year-old son died on the operating table. It was more than devastating. 

Maybe God has another word that’s worse than “devastating,” because if there’s a word that’s far worse than that, it’s what my friend is going through. 

With my limited vocabulary, and man’s sorely limited sense of empathy, I don’t think there’s a thesaurus in the world that can give this mom a word that can accurately describe how she feels about losing her adorable little boy. 

That’s why it was such a pain to hear people tell her, “Oh, everything happens for a reason... he’s enjoying it so much in heaven now. He’s in a much better place!” And variations of the same theme. 

I know these people meant well. I know what they’re saying is true. But somehow, what they said didn’t bring my friend much comfort. In fact, I could see that it was leaving her dead cold. But she was just too polite to even wince. I knew she was trying hard not to take offense. 

Imagine that. A person in deep grief, having to struggle to be polite to someone who means well. Someone who thinks he has this tragedy all figured out. I felt my friend’s quiet despair. 

I wonder how many of us think, really think, of the impact of our words on people who are deeply grieving, suffering from a loss so profound that they can’t put it into words?  

We don’t always have an answer for everything. We don’t always have to understand why tragedy strikes -- why a person in the peak of life suddenly gets paralyzed. Why a young mom suddenly has cancer. Why a little girl suddenly dies of a rare blood disease. Why a teenager suddenly drowns in the sea. Why a healthy dad slips in the bathtub and dies. 

Why a young man suddenly commits suicide. 

There are countless, grievous  things happening around us that we have absolutely no control over, and which we cannot understand. So we must stop talking about it in easy platitudes. Shallow cliches. We must stop giving hackneyed comfort. 

Let’s not cheapen people’s suffering by labeling their pain.

It might be convenient and comforting to us to classify their crises in neat little folders. But it’s surely no help to them. And blurting out cheap words of comfort is just adding to their sorrow.  

So it’s good to remember: Cure-all statements are always suspect. Being flippant about pain only inflicts more pain. 

We must learn NOT to say things that give false hope, like “Everything’s going to be all right.” Or “This, too, shall pass.” Because, well...what if it doesn’t?!! 

I know. It works in the movies. But not always in real life. 

Avoid sweeping generalizations like “It’s going to be worse before it gets better.” First, you don’t know if that’s really going to happen. And second, did anyone ask for your opinion? 

Hurting people don’t need to get hurt some more by our glib pronouncements and unsolicited advice. If we don’t know what to say, well, maybe a big bowl of delicious comfort food will give more comfort! Or soft, jumbo pillows that can make sleep come faster and easier for your hurting friend. Maybe a comfortable, warm sweater, or a book oozing with wisdom, or a short prayer and a sincere hug -- all these can bring more comfort, and do more good things than we can ever imagine! 

So. When you’re about to visit a sick person, or a person in grief, please think hard before you go about what you’re going to do, and what you’re going to say.

Be a blessing, not a burden.
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