April 22, 2018, 1:49 am
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1 Philippine Peso = 172.80584 Guinea Franc
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1 Philippine Peso = 3.95007 Guyana Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.15072 Hong Kong Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.45249 Honduras Lempira
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1 Philippine Peso = 1.24505 Haiti Gourde
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1 Philippine Peso = 264.60534 Indonesian Rupiah
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.22915 Namibian Dollar
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.02629 New Zealand Dollar
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1 Philippine Peso = 1 Philippine Peso
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1 Philippine Peso = 106.04187 Paraguayan Guarani
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1 Philippine Peso = 16.22066 Rwanda Franc
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1 Philippine Peso = 0.02513 Singapore Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.01349 St Helena Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.42646 Slovak Koruna
1 Philippine Peso = 146.53351 Sierra Leone Leone
1 Philippine Peso = 10.79316 Somali Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 380.06338 Sao Tome Dobra
1 Philippine Peso = 0.16804 El Salvador Colon
1 Philippine Peso = 9.89015 Syrian Pound
1 Philippine Peso = 0.22917 Swaziland Lilageni
1 Philippine Peso = 0.599 Thai Baht
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04602 Tunisian Dinar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04292 Tongan paʻanga
1 Philippine Peso = 0.07736 Turkish Lira
1 Philippine Peso = 0.12961 Trinidad Tobago Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.56365 Taiwan Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 43.7488 Tanzanian Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.50259 Ukraine Hryvnia
1 Philippine Peso = 70.84694 Ugandan Shilling
1 Philippine Peso = 0.0192 United States Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 0.54158 Uruguayan New Peso
1 Philippine Peso = 154.65719 Uzbekistan Sum
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1 Philippine Peso = 437.43038 Vietnam Dong
1 Philippine Peso = 2.00538 Vanuatu Vatu
1 Philippine Peso = 0.04922 Samoa Tala
1 Philippine Peso = 10.16881 CFA Franc (BEAC)
1 Philippine Peso = 0.05185 East Caribbean Dollar
1 Philippine Peso = 10.16881 CFA Franc (BCEAO)
1 Philippine Peso = 1.83983 Pacific Franc
1 Philippine Peso = 4.79931 Yemen Riyal
1 Philippine Peso = 0.2292 South African Rand
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Do no harm (1)

Of course you’ve been betrayed. Of course, they’ve gossiped about you. Of course, they’ve done a demolition job on you. Of course, they’ve gloated over your misfortunes. 

If you’ve suffered because of any these things, you are not alone. 

It’s an unfortunate fact of life. People will always do terrible things to other people. But one of the worst things you can ever do is to betray a good friend who has done you a lot of good. Have you ever betrayed someone who has been good to you? 

This is something I cannot, for the life of me, understand. I don’t consider myself a particularly kind, compassionate, caring person. But, selfish as I am, I wouldn’t even think of betraying a good friend whom I owe a lot to! Let alone a friend who has never done me any harm. And yet, there are strange, strange people who have the gall to betray even those who have been kind to them — without batting an eyelash. No regrets. No remorse. No hesitation. 

Outwardly, these strange people may even look decent, nice. Yet behind their innocent veneer lurks a heart that destroys others without mercy, without compunction. 

The Bible warns us — “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?” (Jeremiah 17:9)

We’re not just talking about serial killers or child molesters here. The Bible is talking about ordinary people like you and me who look harmless on the outside, but are capable of doing the most despicable things — like betraying friends who have been good, kind, and helpful to them. Somehow, there’s a certain cold-bloodedness to all this. 

So. What is one supposed to do when one is betrayed, destroyed, or maligned by someone whom one considers a good and trusted friend? An “almost sibling”? A person whom one has repeatedly helped and brought to a better station in life? Please take note. This is more than
just a simple friendship because significant investments have been made here. Ergo, swirling, boiling  cauldrons of emotions are involved. 

ell, first of all, you must rein in your emotions and try to be as cerebral as you can. A tall order, but with God’s help, it can be done! Then may I suggest you do these things which I’ve actually done — with surprisingly good results. 

1. Recognize the person who betrayed you for what he/she is. If you’ve investigated the matter thoroughly and have discovered that your friend is, indeed, guilty of betraying you, then accept it as a fact. 
Do not justify it. Don’t sugarcoat it. Don’t minimize it. Don’t let it slide. Don’t be in denial. You’re not helping anyone by doing that — least of all, yourself. 

2. Find out and accept the full extent of the harm done to you. Ignorance is NOT bliss. It’s unwise to choose to be ignorant. It’s not going to hurt you less if you don’t know the full extent of the things that were done against you. It will hurt you more in the long run. 
Do what you can to clear your name. But never stoop down to the level of your offender. Never retaliate by also doing harm to your offender or his allies. 

3. If possible, get a third party to mediate — choose someone who’s brave, mature, and objective. Someone who can be direct, upfront and won’t take sides. One who can be trusted with confidentiality. 

Try to settle things in one sitting. Know what you want the offending party to do to make things right, if he admits to his wrongdoing. 

However, if the offender doesn’t admit that he did you harm, leave him to God. Tell him you forgive him even if he’s not asking for your forgiveness. 

Do this politely, not arrogantly. 

Forgive — but don’t forget what was done to you. Learn from it. Don’t be bitter. Be wiser. No need to restore the friendship, even if the offender has apologized. The option is yours. Trust must be regained first. If there’s no trust, it’s useless. 

4. If you think that a confrontation isn’t necessary, or if you don’t want one, then don’t gossip about it to others. But if you are asked about it, explain your side as objectively as possible. Cite trustworthy witnesses who can back up your story. The truth must prevail. Don’t cover up to avoid offending the offender. There’s nothing wrong with exposing lies, betrayal, manipulation, politicking, backstabbing, and any deeds done to malign and destroy. 

5.  Do not attack the offender. Expose his wrongdoing. The truth will always prevail in the end. 

6. Be polite to those who chose to betray or destroy you. No need to be overly friendly or warm, just to show that you’ve forgiven them. God sees your heart. But don’t be cold or rude either. That makes you something of an offender, too. 

7. Pray. Forgive them, and tell the Lord how much they’ve hurt you. Read some entreaties in the Book of Psalms. Follow how David ranted to God about his enemies. Vent to God. He can take it. Many people cannot. You’ll only corrupt their minds. That’s not pleasing to God. 

8. Ask God to avenge you. Vindicate you. Ask him for the grace to respond with dignity. Ask him to let you grow more like Christ: stronger, wiser, humbler, more compassionate, and more sensitive to others as a result of the wrong done to you. Ask him for wisdom never to do harm to others. 

Ask him to use, for your good, what was meant to do you harm! It’s a godly prayer. Just like what God did for Joseph who was betrayed and sold into slavery by his jealous brothers. As a result, after much suffering and training, Joseph became prime minister of Egypt, second in power only to pharaoh. God used Joseph to save millions of lives. 

9. Ask God to deal with your enemies according to the evil they’ve done. God will surely do it because he’s all-just. Nobody gets away with anything. 

10. Pray a blessing for those who have hurt you, harmed you, betrayed you, sought to destroy you in any way. Ask God to give them sorrow that will lead to repentance. You might not get to see it happen here, but He will surely do it! 

One day, when you’ve seen God lift you up, way above your enemies — and he just might do it in this lifetime — remember: you are strong only because God has made you strong. Never think you did it by yourself. Always thank him for   vindicating you!
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